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Old 5th November 2010, 10:00 AM   #15
Raymond
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Re: adultery

Hi Tbatom. Trust is the crucial thing. It takes the longest to be built up but can be broken the quickest. This is your task. To restore the trust that once was. That will take time. No quick fix there. If you have learned your lesson then that can be your strongest area.

You will have to watch your habits and your thoughts. Be careful what you are watching as unfaithfulness is pushed everywhere you look. If there is a weakness there it might be helpful to submit to certain controls for the time being like letting your wife know what you are doing and who you are with whenever you are away. That is not controlling you but something you submit to in order to help you stay clean.
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