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Old 14th August 2015, 11:17 AM   #4
chosen
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Re: And yet another "I love you but not in love with you" story

OH dear I cant imagine how devastated you must be. She has made a terrible decision and one that she will regret one day, but you cant force her to see what is right or do what is right.

IT sounds as if she is 'trying out' this new relationship and lifestyle to see of it 'works' before she gets rid of her insurance(you). What a cheek, as if she knows you will sit and wait for her indefinitely while she lives with someone else. Its not really up to her to end the marriage anyway, she has no reason, you are the one being cheated on, and you are the one who needs to decide whether you could trust her again or have her back if this relationship fails. Some can and some cant, there is no right or wrong in this sort of situation.

I think you need to assume the worst, and try to begin to pick up the pieces, try and build some sort of life apart from her, and get some legal advise in case of divorce.
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