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Old 13th December 2008, 08:47 AM   #7
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Re: Advice needed on whether should let husband come on holiday with us.

Jackie you are right about the way he is carrying on. I still feel it might not have happened if the S thing was sorted. Yes sex isn't everything but it is a valid part of relationship in marriage and an important one. You seem to have got everything else right. Maybe he was too embarrassed to be blunt with you. All I am saying is do not underestimate the physical intimacy which is a valid and important part of marriage. If he is now having sex, the thought of coming back to a sexless marriage is just one more barrier that needn't be there.

Yes the relationship is very important but crossing out sex puts a bit of a blight on it for most.

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