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Old 23rd August 2011, 09:12 AM   #45
Raymond
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Re: Married and lonely

Well what is your faith on this Sasha? Do you have faith that he will turn around through your prayers and your life? The scripture encourages us to consider whether we have enough to begin the work otherwise we cannot finish and will be defeated. Read the part about whether the king had enough men to win the war or whether the builder had enough to complete the wall.

In these sort of situations you need some leading to see the end by faith. I do think that using porn can be grounds for divorce which for me can come into the bracket of
adultery. I am not sure about the rest of it although it seems that you have been deceived character wise but you fell for it as well.

I think the porn also prevents him from getting real as he will not be depending on you for his sexual needs. There is something about pure sexual intimacy that causes a man to open up emotionally. At least I have found that and I didn't have the best start in life having had an orphan background. Where this is diverted outside of the marriage then something important is missing. It isn't just sex but the relationship that is somehow part of it, at least for a man. I don't know about a woman.
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