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Old 9th November 2012, 09:16 AM   #13
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Re: I just can't forget!

It's a shame that this forum has only one male poster and the rest are all females who are all excellent however.

Perhaps, men have a different perspective on "cheating" than us women?

I agree with chosen. Usually, people can forgive but they don't forget. I won't forget as to what happened.

My hubby was lying to this OW that he was single since 3 years ago. I spoke to this OW over the phone. She had two kids and had a long-term partner who doesn't live with her. I'm not sure if I "forgive" him just yet though I accepted that he had to do what he had to do. This woman now knows that he was lying all along. She said, "you are welcome to him". Well, I thought I was his Wife LOL it sounded as if she thought he was hers! lololol

Unfortunately, cheating seems to be extremely common as I looked at stats. In the present cultural climate where divorce isn't frowned upon and availability of accessible internet social, dating & porn sites (which allow people to "meet" so easily in secret), things are not going to change much. Just like Porn, you just won't win when husband decided to do as he wants or needs.

One off sex is much easier. Long-term "relationship" is completely another as there must be a huge emotional component for men to keep going back to the same woman over such a long time. This OW seems to think he belonged her!
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