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Old 9th November 2012, 09:46 AM   #14
Raymond
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Re: I just can't forget!

You are right Lost. It is part of the culture we live in now. Porn practically finds you if you are not careful. Movies are full of adultery and affairs. Do men have a different angle on cheating? I don't think so. Often it will be the wife who cheats as we have found out on here many a time.

As a man I believe in marriage and faithfulness otherwise I would not be on here.

Are you still living with your husband?

As for forgiveness I think it releases you from the past and from the person to go on and fully live. Forgetting is helpful in the sense of not being on continual playback which goes with forgiveness. Of course forgiveness does not justify the wrong but it will release you and if often the first step in healing.
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