Thread: I can't let go!
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Old 1st October 2013, 07:20 PM   #47
Roses
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Re: I can't let go!

I am totally with other posters.

You have drifted apart from each other - or he was always a singleton as far as he was concerned throughout this marriage. You have been suspicious but you are also somewhat in denial with unrealistic hopes and desires that he will someday change. No. He won't change. He's always been this way and he's happy being the way he is.

You are simply a vehicle for him to keep his lifestyle going which includes his OW, probably his love interest. Maybe, he has some sort of attachment to you and gives him a sense of security, perhaps?

You must love this man, who hasn't shown enough interest in you. perhaps, his existence is providing you something. In a way, you are trapped. If he was happy with you, he probably wouldn't be seeing OW whatever reason. In a sense, he wants to keep his status quo e.g. house, car, hobby etc and that's the reason why he needs you probably..
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