Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes
Although we are responsible for our actions as she is as well I can see that she has severe incapacities from her childhood. To be beaten with a belt and made to kneel on grain is really over the top. If she uses this as an excuse for her behaviour then there won't be a way forward. If she realises she needs healing then there is. I think your use of demons could be relevant here. Some bad backgrounds can haunt you for years. I don't think it is just a matter of being beaten with a belt. There was obvious cruelty going on.
You say that she has now found religion. That could be helpful so long as it is not a cult. It depends. Do you know what it is?
I really hope you get through with this one. I think she really needs you but doesn't realise it.
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