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Originally Posted by Raymond
I think I agree. You have analised the past over and over. You are where you are now and need to look forward.
Whatever she has done wrong in the past in your eyes she now wants to work on the marriage. Surely that is a good and commendable thing and would leave room for forgiveness? People do grow. I sense you are still bitter against her which will certainly invalidate any working on the marriage until it is dealt with.
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i wouldn't necessarily say i'm bitter, but my perspective of her has changed. trust is gone, i haven't felt loved in a long time. there is no connection, no similar interest, nothing to bring us together. I do forgive her, but not able to move past things to just start over.