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Old 15th December 2016, 07:31 PM   #327
Raymond
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Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

As you say Chosen she should have told him and it might have changed things. Then again you would not have married him.

My wife was passionately in love with me to the point of not eating properly. I saw her every week at church meeting but didn't realise. I had asked her out years before but was turned down. She was periodically discussing it with the pastor's wife who said she should let me know but she kept saying no no no. I wasn't going to ask her out because I had been turned down already. I suppose it was quite humbling for her to admit that and possibly face rejection. In the end, after two years, it was decided that the pastor should tell me.

Moral of the story is that if you really love someone let them know as soon as you are sure about it. You might risk rejection but it is better in the long run.
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