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Old 8th November 2012, 08:58 PM   #6
Raymond
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Re: Contact or No Contact...help!

You haven't been the most considerate of husbands it seems and may have even starved her of love. You say you were given no reason but by your post you have outlined what could be the reasons. I think if this time of reflection can bear fruit and bring you to the place of apologising for not considering her as a person then there is a chance.

Why don't you write a letter pointing out your failings. Please don't do it in a begging way as that will achieve nothing. A sincere reappraisal in humility (not grovelling) might cause her to think. It may be that you killed any love she had for you by your hasty words and behaviour.

I agree with Chosen in that it is not a good idea for you to give up the house too easily. You may well regret that later on
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