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Old 8th January 2016, 11:11 AM   #2
Raymond
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Re: I'm falling out of love - with the love of my life.

You appear to have a lot going for you apart from the sexual problem. It seems plain to me that she is giving out a lot in business, motherhood etc. and doesn't have much left for meaningful sex. If she is a marriage therapist she would know this. She is probably very good at counseling others but doesn't see her own marital problem. It is plain she is doing too much. Sex is very important in a marriage. Regularly coming together in a meaningful way takes temptation out of the way. Being exhausted or too busy doesn't make for good sex. Some things will have to be pruned in her life I think. It might be difficult for her to receive that from you but she might receive it from a marriage counselor perhaps.

We can't always make our wives act in the way we want because of our fantasies but adapting to each other's needs is often the answer.
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