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Old 9th July 2014, 09:00 AM   #24
Raymond
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Re: Am i sinning and how do i stop?

I don't know what happened 1okgal so I can't judge. Maybe the counselor was very unwise and stated law instead of balancing things with care and love. I think we have to pick safe people if we are going to share deeply about our problems. It might not necessarily be the pastor. On the other hand some might not like the truth no matter how gentle and lovingly it is put. It still comes down to a personal choice in the end.

Your attitude is to be commended in that you have grieved the loss and moved on and have saved that which could be saved. This doesn't make what has happened right of course but you have covered it with love and have forgiven and have saved your marriage, apart from the 5% of course. Others might not be able to do that.
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