Re: Wife wants "space" and is moving out
Hindsight is a wonderful thing Loving ,
I feel for you and I can tell that you really want to put things right with your wife , but I think now isn't the time , for her to ask for space can't have been easy for her - bearing in mind she is working and has your young daughter , plus a heart condition to contend with . I should imagine going it alone would be very difficult for her.... So it appears to me she must have been thinking things through for a while.
Writing things down is an excellent idea , it gets your thoughts straight and also enables you to see any progress made .
Maybe if your wife sees you going to counselling it will encourage her to do the same ? I think it would be good for her to have someone to talk to .
Make sure your wife knows you're available to her , listen if she wants to talk but give her that space ....
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