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Old 25th October 2013, 10:06 PM   #152
chosen
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Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

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Originally Posted by Raymond View Post
I know a few older people in our churches where they had happy marriages but their wife died. About three couples come to mind. All of them are married again and are happy again. It doesn't mean they did not appreciate their first wives. Far from it. They all found local wives, felt attracted and married. I think it is more flexible than it is made out to be in films and songs etc.
Yes I too know people who actually married again very soon after their spouses died, which always mystified me as they met their new spouses within a few months of the death!!! I will never understand how anyone can recover that quickly from loosing a spouse.
I get what you are saying though, that there isnt just one person who is right for us, but that we can be happy with more than one person if we loose our first spouse.
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