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Originally Posted by Halfpint
He doesn't use Facebook and is always open about what he is doing and where he is going. He is on the computer a lot at the weekends but he knows I have access to his email accounts and wouldn't try to hide anything from me. I really don't think he has another woman as he has always been very honest with me and would tell me if there was anyone else. He knows my history and told me he wouldn't treat me badly like my first husband did, and I believe him.
I can't understand what he is thinking. I suppose I will just have to ride this out and hope for the best. It is so hard at the moment as I haven't lived on my own at all since I left home at 17 and at the moment there is just me and the cat.
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I'm sorry you're going thru this. : (
If he won't go to therapy, I'm not sure what you can do. Perhaps you can read the book Divorce Busting. It should be on Amazon. It seems to have helped some people.
In the meantime, keep going to counseling, take care of yourself and keep posting here if you can.