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Old 21st November 2015, 03:56 AM   #9
Lindentree1
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Re: My husband doesn't feel the same about me and needs some time to think

Perhaps you should give him enough space to miss you. If you are still meeting up, he could take this for granted. Maybe he needs to see how it feels when you aren't around. Show him a strong woman that can survive without him. A shift in you may spark his interest again. Google "The 180". Those are ideas that may help you. It's one idea, anyway.

ETA:Personally, I don't know if I agree with the 180 philosophy, but it is an option to look at. People usually mention the 180 when a spouse leaves, but I'm am not 100% convinced of the success rate. But I do agree with the idea of taking care of yourself--that's always a good idea.

Again, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I know what it 's like to have a husband leave.

Last edited by Lindentree1; 21st November 2015 at 05:37 AM.
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