I don't love my husband anymore.
Hi everyone, if anyone could shed some light on my situation I would be very grateful! Me and my husband met where I was 24, I am now 31! Been married for four years,when we got married we both agreed that we didn't want children, as a result of this he had the snip three years ago. I did voice my concerns before he got it done that I may or may not change my mind. And last year I was starting to feel I was changing my mind, but have just tried to occupy my mind with other things. But I started to distance myself for him, leading a seperate life, going out with friends getting drunk, flirting, spending less time with my husband! And its has got to the point where I am not in love with him anymore. I think I was starting to resent him. So I sat him down and told him I wasn't happy, I wasn't in love with him anymore and that I wanted different things, kids! As you can imagine he is heartbroken. And I cannot see a way forward for us. He said he can't give me what I want and why would he with someone that is not in love with him l. But I would be willing to try and get that love back and try counselling, but is it going to be worth it if he can't give me what I want? I am so confused! I don't think I can put him through this hurt again.
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