Thread: Advice wanted
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Old 2nd August 2010, 11:32 AM   #4
Raymond
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Re: Advice wanted

Your wife needs the counselling not you Typhoon. We are married with our bodies as well as our minds and soul. To withhold sex or not to do it is a problem. Chosen speaks good sense but how can we speak to your wife? Awakening oneself for sex is a duty as well as a great pleasure especially when we could be denying our spouse. If she is capable of having an affair she is capable of sex and that is owed to you and only you. The reasons need to be uncovered and maybe that through counselling. You have a steady marriage it seems but do need some kind of sexual counselling together. When and why did this happen would be a good question to ask. There are answers there in the past that need to be unravelled.

Some of this might relate to the affair. Although she repented of it and came back together she may have created a soul tie with him that is preventing her being free in this area. This can happen. The christian way is to repent and renounce the relationship before God and have someone pray to break the soul tie. I am not sure what the answer would be apart from that and of course she would have to be willing for that. The manifestation she would have is that somehow the other person is around when having sex with you. If that rings a bell with her then she could have a wrong soul tie with him due to her unfaithfulness.

Raymond

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