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Old 6th May 2017, 01:41 PM   #1
Pmsc
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Caught on dating site.

I have rewritten this because it was long winded and I can't easily cut it short.


I was insinuated by a guy I know that my girlfriend which is away for a couple of months is up to no good. He didn't say anything directly but that is the vibes that I got.

A few days after I remembered that she accidentally joined badoo. A dating site that a link was sent to her by her son on Facebook. This happened at Christ and I know that badoo has a reputation of spamming people's friends list. She opened the link and it created the account for her. I saw the app/notification on her phone and asked why she was on it. She said that it came from her son and she didn't know what it was. I told her it's for dating and unless she wasn't happy with me to delete it as it wouldn't be right to be on it. It took her a while as she was still receiving notifications by email but eventually deleted her account. Or so I thought. This was around last Christmas.

I had a gut feeling that something wasn't right so I created a fake profile and found her active ok on Badoo. When I messaged her and eventually got round to saying that she is still on the dating site she told me that I'm talking rubbish and being stupid. Then she deleted her account. I then asked her to explain why she is on a dating site considering it was deleted 5 months ago. She told me that she has nothing to explain and did nothing wrong.

I felt and still feel shattered as she cheated on me before and I caught her out lying but denied it happened in out time. Now I feel a fool and deeply hurt but yet somehow calm about it. I also feel like I'm taken for a fool with no respect.

Is this seen as cheating or am I over reacting? I ask this because I am confused of all the nice things she has said and done but yet I also think about the lack of sex and interest unless it involves her. I also think about certain things she said in the past like when I picked her up from a Christmas party. Everyone had gone home when she called me to collect her but yet when I got there her boss drove past really quick and acted like he didn't see or know her eventhough he could have knocked her down. Also about being with the boys from the other party not thinking that I knew some of them.

Just feel like a right @|{√

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