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Old 4th July 2013, 01:34 PM   #38
chosen
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Re: child produced from affair with married man

I agree with Raymond, and its clear that you are in an unhappy marriage with a lying cheating and selfish man, who cares little for you and appears to have no repentance. You stay because you are very needy, not because it is the right thing to do. He probably knows that you are needy and thats why he walks all over you.

I know its hard. I had to seperate from my first husband after 23 years of marriage when I had three children to care for. I wont say it was easy, but it was the right thing, and now I have been very happily married to my second husband for coming up to 8 years.

However its that or stay with this man for good, and is he really who you want to be the father of your children? I wouldn't. You cant even trust him, and I don't blame you, neither would I.
Do you have friends, family or church family who you can go to for help and support? How about getting some counselling.
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