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Old 2nd December 2014, 11:42 AM   #3
Raymond
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Re: Feeling Alone And Confused in My Marriage

I agree. Starting small like walking and things would help. The question really is how to motivate her. One good thing I see is that she has given up drinking which cannot be bad. I hope you have encouraged her in that. Encouragement in any little thing is important as she seems to have dug a hole for herself. I do agree with her that couples do not have to have the same interests but there should be a healthy interest in what the other is doing even if it is not our thing.

I think it is great what you have done in getting your weight down and getting your self esteem back. How to carry her with you is still the big question. Does she have any interests at all apart from the passive ones?
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