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Old 30th March 2015, 07:17 PM   #4
Raymond
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Re: does my husband still love me

Did he actually sleep with someone else in the first place Cherrybomb?

It seems to me one thing led to another. He cheated then you tried to get back at him?

Also the pornography is a kind of mental adultery in my eyes.

Without faithfulness from both of you these things do not work out.

If he did sleep with another then the relationship is going nowhere until he repents of that and puts it right with you. This will leave the problem of the pornography which again is a kind of unfaithfulness. If he is not willing to work on giving this up then I don't see much hope.

I expect your trust in him has been a bit shattered to say the least. If he is not willing to work on this then I think you have a choice of whether to leave him or not.
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