Re: Should we reunite?
Looks to me like your younger son is in danger if you say he hits him and says he wishes he could get rid of him. That sounds horrific to me.
Going back might afford some protection for your youngest son but sounds like it would be very detrimental to your oldest son.
All in all I would stay where you are unless a real change happens to your husband. Can't think how the youngest is coping with his Dad at present with no protection around.
This would not stop temporary visits to see how things are and to watch out for the youngest but I wouldn't go back until things are safe all round.
As a matter of interest what was you husbands background like as it seems to me that a lot has come down from the generational line?
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