Re: Should we reunite?
It is encouraging in a way that your youngest is handling his father, but I would imagine that he has a lot of emotional wounding from his upbringing with your husbands outbursts. I think he has gone past the point of adoption but the sheltered housing could work if he wanted it. At fifteen he will be making some of his own decisions about where he could live but there will be help available I would think when he has decided what he wants.
It's great that the eldest is happy to live with you at your sisters for the moment. I am encouraged that your sister has had ministry for stuff coming down the generations. She probably knows a little about that side of it.
I think that going back will affect your oldest in the wrong way. The thing is to think about the best thing for the youngest. Obviously your husband needs help as well, but it is important to rescue your younger son so to speak first.
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