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Re: How do i fix this now?
Well mine said that it just happened, and it was just a kiss LOL.
I felt a failure too, couldn't believe it and didn't see it coming at all. Even now people say did you see any signs and I didn't really. I'm a different person now, I hung on his every word and worshipped him, thought he was great so really that's the only signs something wasn't right and it was with me. I suppose I didn't see any signs pointing to the affair because I was so blind and saw him through those eyes I just described.
I think what it said in the book you sent me about him having a great big hole in him which he thinks other can fill for him is very true of him.
Wish I had this book ages ago, I'll need to find a way to work in some of the message texts next time he call whining how bad his life is :-) Not to save our marriage, just to maybe let him see that he is a great big baby.
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