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Old 5th May 2013, 10:54 PM   #138
chosen
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Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Snowmike, I am glad that you are feeling better, but please be careful. A man who is an expert on divorce and remarriage, and who has counselled countless people going through what you are, says that it takes 2-3 years to be ready for another relationship, and that is after the divorce. So many second marriages fail because people rush into them far too soon. You may not be intending to get serious, but you dont know what will happen and just because you dont want a serious relationship, many of the women you are meeting may be looking for just that and may get very hurt.
Can you not go out with male friends or a group? Or take up an interesting hobby or sport?
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