Thread: Just a Mess
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Old 14th December 2007, 08:36 PM   #8
Martin
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Re: Just a Mess

Hi HeartBroken

Thanks for your message

No problem with you commenting not at all, I take your point on divorce it just got to such a crisis situation, being 6 months seperated and I was so angry and I mean seriously angry I could not talk to her, just shouted at her down the phone and could not stop.

I was in a complete red mist, I even brought a punch bag on the advice from my councillor because she was concerned of how it was getting out of hand and I could of ended up hurting someone or myself.

I know divorce is not how God intended it to be, but I was sick of being in limbo not able to move on, she was not with me yet she still affected my life. I felt being on my own was better that what my marriage had become.

I have I new love for her now, I am not as angry as I was and I have not raised my voice once I now accept the marriage as it stands at the moment not what I expect it to be.

We now pray together for God to help us work on our relationship.

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I filled my life with the Gym / sport to try and relieve the anger and stress but this only worked for a short time. Somehow I walked into a church and ended up with an extremely wise and supportive pastor who walked me and some others through the basics of the Christian faith again.

I have not read your postings however I pray that you and your husband will reconcile. I pray that your husband recieves a revelation of Gods plans / purposes for him and for both of you.

Thanks

Martin
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