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Old 4th October 2013, 12:08 PM   #8
chosen
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Re: Marriage to a wife or Mother in law?

Well to her its normal because that is all she knows. Unless she can see what is happening I cant see how you can change it. Are you saying that she goes to her parents with the child every day? If so that is very excessive.

If they think you are not good enough, then they will no doubt speak negative things to her about you, which will not help the marriage.

The thing is that you saw this happening before you married, so what did you think was going to change?. She clearly hasn't cut the apron strings, and seems very immature and dependant on her parents. Unless you can get her to move away I am not sure what you can do. Of course its not normal or healthy for parents to lecture their adult kids. They need to let her go, but I doubt they will unless you both do something.

Would she agree to some marriage counselling?
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