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Originally Posted by Forever
He acts like a man who is hiding something serious and would rather end the marriage than to have to reveal whatever it is.
Keep your eyes open...you may be surprised....I hope I am wrong...but been there, done that, seen too much of it too often.
I am so sorry that your life is unraveling without any clear explanation as it is.
This is shocking for you, but there definately is something going on over there.
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Hi
I know what you mean when you say, "he acts like a man who's hiding something" Forever. That's very insightful.
Daisy, Is your h a quiet and reserved type who wants to keep his thoughts to himself usually?
If your h had this "previous" e.g. hiding his debts without you knowing, then doesn't that give you more uncertainty as to what is going on this time? Do you happen to have a joint account which you have access to? Sounds like your h is reluctant to "open up" to you and you are left dumbfounded and thunderstruck by his news of a breakup.
You seem to be rather very accepting and tolerant in this situation.