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Old 17th August 2010, 09:31 PM   #2
chosen
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Re: Engagement weirdness: Help please

Hi Scarlett
I think that you need to wait till he asks you. If he isnt ready he isnt ready,and the last thing you want is to be marrying a guy who is being pressured. He may well pull out way along the line, or even at the last minute. Do you want a reluctant bridegroom or someone who is keen and excited?
You may not agree with this but I would recommend that you live apart. Why would he want to go to all the trouble and expense of getting married if he is already living as if he is already married? I expect he dosnt feel the need to take that step as he already has what he wants and doesnt have to committ fully.
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