Thread: I can't let go!
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Old 5th September 2013, 07:26 PM   #15
chosen
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Re: I can't let go!

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Originally Posted by Pamela View Post
Honestly, after 29 years... I am so ready to experience a relationship with some one who really wants to be with me, and appreciates me. I think I am a very good person, at least I try to be. I am tired of feeling lonely. I pray that my heart be moved swiftly so that I can move forward.

Thanks so much for your support.
I can understand that. I think its better to live alone than be in a unhappy marriage where you can trust your spouse, and you don't even know how much money he has!

He may as well be a lodger to be honest.
I think you may need to decide between confronting all this with proper counselling, and stating that unless he goes that's it, or living with him while each lives separate lives, or separate for a set time while you take stock of this marriage. I never want to advocate separation except in very bad cases, but what sort of marriage is this? I am amazed that you have stuck it for so long. I also think you need to tell the children how unhappy you are and what you suspect.
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