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Old 17th April 2014, 09:47 PM   #35
chosen
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Re: Question for men - I would apreciate your candid opinion

Its does sound as if you have grand time consuming plans that dont allow for time to be a wife and mother edgya. What of your husband? When will you have time to give him support and encourage him in whatever it is he does in the future? You have so many ambitions for yourself, but when will you have time for family life and home? Things that are vital if you want a good marriage and children in the future.
If you want to make your marriage work, it will take a lot of time, commitment and dedication, and you may need to water down some of your own desires and wants to ensure that you are both considered in this marriage equally. IF you are so driven and ambitious that you can only think of yourself and what you want in life, then marriage may never work for you. Its takes a lot of compromise and work and selflessness.
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