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Originally Posted by DeeDee
Hi;
I recently found this forum. I am married but, me and my husband are more roommates than a married couple. He doesn't care about having sex himself but, he recently brought up wanting to watch me have sex with another man.
We are a Christian couple. I try to get my husband interested in sex, and the only thing that seems to excite him is the thought of me being intimate with another man. I love my husband and have no desire to be with another man but, I feel that doing so would be the only way to get my husband excited about having sex with me.
This is my third marriage. The first two went South within a few years. My first husband wasn't a Christian, and he cheated on me. My second husband is in prison for the rest of his life for doing the most horrid thing a man can do. My current husband was a pastor with the Salvation Army for many years, and he's a wonderful man but, now I am beginning to wonder about him and me.
I have been a forced celibate for about 7 years now, and recently found out that my husband has had thoughts of sexually sharing me with other men. I know I am not alone in being in a sexless marriage but, I wonder if I am alone in the fact that my husband wants to share me, sexually.
I went to our pastor's wife and told her that my marriage was sexless and I didn't know what to do about it. She said, "Tell him you want to fulfill his sexual wants and desires completely. And then do it!" I didn't tell her what his desires are, mostly because I am ashamed of his desires. And what scares me the most is that it might be the only way to get him interested in having sex with me again.
Thought? Anyone???
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Don't even think about it, this is morally revolting and wrong on every level, if he loved you truly as a husband should love his wife then he wouldn't contemplate such vile behaviour, I think you might need to question his motives not to mention if you would want to be married to such a man, had my wife ever suggested this to me then very loud alarm bells would of been ringing in my head.