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Old 19th January 2011, 10:19 AM   #6
david
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Re: Help me

we agreed not to share this problem with our daughter until afrer her A levels. This was my wife's suggestion. I agreed on the basis the the 6 months would be a trial period and if improvements to our relationships were made, we would reconsider our position in june.

I did ask my wife if she agreed to the trial that we needed to work together and communicate. It could be that either there is no return or that she thinks that time will heal. I have changed what i think is wrong.
I suspect that she was talking to someone. I think that she backed off once he started thinking he was interested in other things.

We agreed last night that we would have a family holiday. I saw that as being positive.

My wife thinks that people don't change. I need to demonstrate that they do. At least the conversation is now civil with very good eye contact.
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