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14th September 2008, 07:20 PM

Yes, WHY are you moving in with her? Order of business is usually..
1. Meet, fall in love
2. Proposal
3. The wedding
4. She moves in with YOU or preferably you get a NEW place together that you never shared with another before her.

That's how we did it 28 years ago. Am I missing something? Why don't you select a place together AFTER the wedding? The living together is after the first 3. Statistics show that those who live together the largest majority...do not marry. Familiarity breeds comtempt ..they say. In marrige ..it is comfortable and nice.

So, OK she does not put the cap back on the toothpaste...big deal. Rethink your order of business, perhaps?

Answer...NO, to proposal in front of others. This is not a show ..it is a private, hopefully memorable moment. Maybe she says, NO. That would be a Kodak moment in front of others. Propose privately, simply, cheaply and sweetly.

14th September 2008, 07:20 PM	#2
1aokgal Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Proposal worries Yes, WHY are you moving in with her? Order of business is usually.. 1. Meet, fall in love 2. Proposal 3. The wedding 4. She moves in with YOU or preferably you get a NEW place together that you never shared with another before her. That's how we did it 28 years ago. Am I missing something? Why don't you select a place together AFTER the wedding? The living together is after the first 3. Statistics show that those who live together the largest majority...do not marry. Familiarity breeds comtempt ..they say. In marrige ..it is comfortable and nice. So, OK she does not put the cap back on the toothpaste...big deal. Rethink your order of business, perhaps? Answer...NO, to proposal in front of others. This is not a show ..it is a private, hopefully memorable moment. Maybe she says, NO. That would be a Kodak moment in front of others. Propose privately, simply, cheaply and sweetly. Last edited by 1aokgal; 14th September 2008 at 07:25 PM.