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Old 28th October 2015, 11:39 PM   #2032
notDoneYet
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Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

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Originally Posted by chosen View Post
It may not bother you (or you think it doesnt) but its one more thing that will keep you from full acceptance and the cutting off the past.
Maybe if you write the email you could mention that her things are still in your house. If you were to move house for a fresh start I am sure you wouldnt want her things there.
Mate. Please listen to Chosen. I don't mean read what she said but REALLY listen. She's giving you sound advice.

You are still hanging on to the old R. Change the dynamic. Please mate for your own sake just do it. Get her stuff out and change the place up a bit.
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