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Old 10th August 2015, 08:41 PM   #10
chosen
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Re: Wife and I have not been intimate in months.

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Originally Posted by Jaxon View Post
I know there are different birth controls out there, but she doesn't trust any of them because nothing can boast 100% safety. She's gotten pregnant before while we were being careful, and everything she's read, she's not happy with.
What do you mean by you were being careful?

I used to get pregnant at the drop of a hat, and I used the coil for many years and also the pill for many years and there were no accidents. Since then the choice is far greater and there are even more reliable methods.

I think that her issue is the miscarriage and the fact that she may have got to that point of not wanting sex unless she wants a baby and for now she doesnt want that. That can happen to couples who have problems in this area. However I dont think this will go away on its own, and you may well need to be firm about getting help. There is plenty out there its shame if you dont use what is available.
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