Re: Should I say yes?
You are right. It doesn't come out of nothing. If you don't get a good start you can be a bit handicapped. Eros can survive in marriage if you have it at the start even though it may need a bit of tending. Rather like a good garden with beautiful flowers needs tending and weeding at times long term. A marriage is far more than platonic with sex thrown in and it would be a mistake to enter it on that basis.
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