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Old 11th October 2013, 11:28 AM   #55
chosen
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Re: Pray for Me Please

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Originally Posted by Roses View Post
Hi

If you've never known how much his monthly incomes are (usually paid into a bank account), the lawyers can check this out.

I'm somewhat amazed that your legal advice did not include any financial disclosure prior to any sort of financial settlement.

My female gut instinct tells me he was probably having far more than "emotional affair" with this OW/his colleague for a long time. Married men wouldn't leave their wives unless he's extremely sure of the prospect of OW. If OW works, perhaps your h thought he wouldn't need to support her. That must be extremely attractive to someone who thinks his money ought to remain as his.
yes when I got divorced we both had to fill in a detailed financial disclosure which we had to sign under oath. It included any savings, earnings, assets etc. I think you need to speak to your lawyer in more detail about this.
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