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Old 20th January 2016, 04:38 AM   #2
Lindentree1
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Re: Do I give up on my Marriage of 10yrs - together for 17yrs

I think seventeen years is a good reason to see if you can work it out. If you both still love each other. I think it's bad to blame you for his drug use. He needs to own up and take responsibility.

Have you thought of giving marriage counseling a try? It sounds like you have some things to talk out.

My other piece of advice is not to pay for everything. If he works, he should contribute to some of the bills. It should not all be on your back. I would be horrified to hear he blew $60,000 on gambling and drugs.

It's good he is clean but he needs to prove himself to you. He's broke and wanting your marriage back but still blaming you.

If you really want this to work marriage counseling might be a great help. If you can't get past your issues, at least you know tried everything to make it work.
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