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Old 27th January 2016, 08:40 PM   #2
Raymond
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Re: So Sad but it is over!

So sad that you were hit below the belt in this VS.

You have every ground to call it quits VS if you wanted to. Even porn (mental adultery) is bad on it's own but with online affairs and probably actual sex outside of marriage all add up to gross unfaithfulness. There is no other explanation if you are looking for one.

Two years is a long time to deceive one's wife. I don't know if there is a road back. What if you hadn't found out about it? How long would it have gone on?

I can't tell you to leave him. That is up to you. If he ever gets to the place of sincere repentance there would be hope, but even then the trust would take a very long time to be regained and his life would have to be an open book to you to make it work. I don't know if he is up to it really. Only you can work that out. Just giving excuses though does not show sincere repentance.
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