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Old 1st March 2016, 06:59 PM   #2
Lindentree1
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Re: Help needed

Hi Confused,

Your wife is probably really angry with you. The inappropriate pictures, the gay sites. All this shows your mind was not really with her. She might be hurt, and might be questioning your sexuality, as well. It sounds like she's lashing out. She letting you know about this man quite pointedly.

In my opinion, you guys need to get off these sites-both of you. And commit to marriage counseling. I think you as a couple need to get help right away before things get even worse. If you want to save your marriage, you both must be committed. She saw your mind was elsewhere. Can you stay off those sites? Can she stop talking to this man? I really think you need to get help for your marriage right away so it doesn't fall apart further.

All this requires commitment from both sides. Can you do it? Can she?

ETA: Is your wife chatting by phone or computer, or is she meeting this man in person?

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