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Old 7th March 2016, 10:15 AM   #18
chosen
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Re: My next move? Help/Advice needed.

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Originally Posted by sssudio_uk View Post
I think the police were harsh on me because the word 'domestic' had been used. I was told that anything that mentions that now is essentially a push for guilt. Sadly, it was a trial without any evidence, really; it had been assumed and taken as truth that I had done all these things. I was surprised also, just for emails. Not a threat in them, or even foul language, just asking for answers.

I have stepped away from it all, for now.
I honestly think that you will have to go the legal route and then pay the solicitors bill out of your share of the house proceeds. Bearing in mind her terrible behaviour so far, I cant see any other way for you to go than contacting her through a solicitor.
Ask the solicitor if you should put the house up for sale now, as you said you cant afford to stay there on your own for long anyway.

The other alternative is that you stay there for now, with your lodger, and wait for her to make the first move re a divorce.
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