rppearso

some spouces are dilibertly baiting and switching and if they were held accountable for it (ie no child support or alimony) through a standard marriage contract you would see far less divorce. People dont just wake up one morning in a happy healthy marriage and say I want a divorce. The spouse that caused the divorce through a bait and switch should be left holding the bag (ie taking the kids with no support), after all the bait and switch spouse lured there partner in manipulitvly got pregnant under false pretences and now plays the "love your spouse card" and that is a no go and thats why we have so many problems. If peoples manipulation had consequences you would see a sharp decline in divorce. Prude women who want a kid can adopt them and raise them on there own instead of baiting some poor guy into it and then extorting him for 18 yrs because she stopped putting out and he cheated on her.