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Old 23rd June 2009, 08:31 AM   #1
Raymond
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School Visit

Hi I thought it might be nice to give some feedback on our visit to schools this spring/summer where you go in and the kids question you on your marriage. The comments are from the kids.

Raymond

Discoveries and surprises
1.That real life people can stay together after an affair; how truthful couples can be to one another.
2.That repairing a marriage is better than walking away from it.
3.Real people – surprises - interesting.
4.That people can survive through bad times and stay together.
5.Well, how faithful they stayed together, after the adultery.
6..I was surprised at the 2nd couple and how they stayed together with what they’d been through.
  1. Disappointments
1.I would liked to have seen a young couple and see what they have been through..
2 Younger couple may have been more appropriate for our age.
3. No [most answered No to this question.]
  1. Differences
1.That it is much better to make the relationship work than to end it.
2.That marriage is a serious thing.
3.If you have a disagreement it is better to make up than leave it.
4.To think more carefully.
5.It has made me realise marriage is not for fun.
6.I learnt that relationships don’t always mean love and marriage.
7. 8.That its much better to make the relationship work than to end it.
  1. Questions and issues remaining
1.I’m still scared if I got married and I had adultery done to me?
2.Do the couples in the end stay together even if one of them died?
3.None,When I want to get married it will happen and I will have to face things.
[mostly left this question blank]
  1. Other comments of the young people
1. It was a good experience hearing from mature married couples.
2 Thank you for giving us the opportunity.
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