Thread: Flirty husband
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Old 1st December 2012, 09:33 PM   #27
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Re: Flirty husband

Naa...you just are terribly jaded right now and understandably so.

But once you get your mind wrapped around the idea that the Lord can "restore the years that the "locust" have eaten", then you can be full of hope once again...unless being bitter and self protecting appeals to you more...then you will be your own worst enemy.

There are good/faithful men "out there"...and you do NOT need to "kiss a bunch of frogs before you find a Prince" to get one...not recommended if you really wanted a good man as opposed to another potential scum bag. All you need to do is to tell the Lord that you do not want to be embittered anymore, or alone for the rest of your life...He will do the rest when He sees that you are ready to let go of any bitterness.

A good/worthy man would not want a jaded woman with tons of baggage to wade through. You need to work through your sorrows and come out of all that pain as a whole person once again.

Even if you do have health issues, a good man will be able to see you through those because he will value the person you are inside...but he wont even get to see the lovely person you once were if you are cranking on and on about how your ex did you wrong, or how scummy men are in general (even if what you think is true for many of them...maybe even most now days). That is an indication that you have not "moved on" to a better state of mind. But you are not wanting the "average man" who does the evil things so many do...so you need to trust the Lord to fill that desire if you ever get to that place.



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