Thread: How to move on
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Old 22nd May 2011, 09:22 PM   #6
Helen_uk
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Re: How to move on

Sounds like you have a similar history to me Lynn . It's difficult to build up your own self esteem when you've had an abusive past .

By letting him emotionally blackmail you ( threatening suicide ) you're not going to solve the problem and it will keep going on in a loop.

At some point you have to make the decision to put a stop to this, before it turns into a very toxic relationship ( for you ) if it hasn't already .

When you love someone it's very difficult to step back and see just how much damage is being done. I'm not suggesting you leave him, that's up to you , but by being available to him he will just keep repeating the same behaviours. Eventually something has to give.
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