Thread: How to move on
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Old 22nd May 2011, 09:42 PM   #7
chosen
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Re: How to move on

Lynn
Firstly why dont you block his number from your phone so that he can no longer text or phone you?Then he cannot keep on and on plaging you to take him back.
Threatening suicide is an extreemly evil and manipulative thing to do, and he knows that he can cheat, threaten suicide, say he loves you, and you will take him back.The only person who can stop this awful behaviour is you.
Maybe you need to get some counselling support to help you to stand firm and not allow him to treat you so badly anymore. Have you had any help with the abuse you suffered?Manipulating cannot work unless you enable it.
A Book that may help is called "Boundaries" by John Towensend. This may help you to set boundaries and stick with them.Another is called, "In sheeps clothing" by George Simon and is about dealing with manipulative people.
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