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Old 3rd May 2011, 04:00 PM   #1
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Unhappy Role confusion

I've been maried for 3yrs and this is the second marriage for both me and my husband.My husband's major problem is he doesn't want to work. He was in the construction business but believed God told him to leave and is doing now various projects for 2and half yrs. None though has produced financial results. He also belives that he has a calling on his life as with myself and does not believe that he is a 9 to 5 worker.He refuses to consider working for a boss in the interim until God releases him. I am therefore the breadwinner and paying everything incl my daughter's varsity fees. I don't want to be divorced twice and need advice. We went for counselling whereby pastors informed him of his duty as a husband, father, man- he listens but doesn't implement. He only wants to eat, sleep, play games; refuse to assist with cleaning or cooking as its a woman's job.I am tired of this life....
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